I may have posted these in the past, but they are good to revisit from time to time. For some you (you know who you are), a daily revisit perhaps? I kid.
The 7 habits are a tenant of Reality Therapy, which is my go-to therapeutic approach. Contrary to how it sounds, it isn’t about a “dose” of reality or a confrontational kind of thing. It is about personal choice guiding our behaviors: good, bad or indifferent.
The Seven Deadly Habits are:
- Bribing or rewarding to control
The 7 Caring Habits are:
- Negotiating differences
Don’t read these like I sometimes do, in one of two ways:
- “Boy oh boy, that OTHER person sure does numbers 2, 3 and 7 to me ALL the time, THEY should be ashamed!”
- Or, in a moment of insight, say to your self, “That rings a bell, I really DO nag or complain (or whatever else from the deadlies) too much, I am really going to make a change and support and encourage,” and then have a sandwich and forget the whole thing.
It is all about choice; choose to dump the deadlies-even if you are justified when administering them.
It is all about choice; choose to double up on the caring habits and watch how quickly things start to get better. Then you can have a sandwhich.
I love 79 of you, won’t I won’t tell you which…